ok, well thats diff then, if you think they are ugly...

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 3:45:59 pm

Member of your preferred sex but to whom you are unattracted invites you somewhere. Kinda a "Hey, everyone's going here, you should come" kinda deal. You suspect this person likes you which is bad. Person has a hot friend though who will be there.

Do you go and hit on hot friend?
Do you not go so as to avoid giving not-hot person wrong idea?

Soth [Muninn and Myrddin]Apr 19, 2006 3:48:35 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 3:59:56 pm [NT]

Soth [Muninn and Myrddin]Apr 19, 2006 4:42:12 pm [NT]

Aaron Micha [HeM]Apr 19, 2006 3:49:46 pm

take off all your clothes and have a huge orgy with the whole group (guys and gals), then post the pics and video on the inn

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:00:06 pm [NT]

anna.jpgApr 19, 2006 3:50:45 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 3:59:24 pm

I see this person regularly.

anna.jpgApr 19, 2006 4:07:44 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:18:29 pm

I don't know them very well atm.

anna.jpgApr 19, 2006 4:19:54 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:20:22 pm [NT]

anna.jpgApr 19, 2006 4:22:15 pm

partying and raving isn't mine thing anyway, so consider the source.

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:23:44 pm

That's another reason why I would feel kinda weird. At least at a club I'd be in my element. lol

BladeApr 19, 2006 3:52:40 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 3:59:45 pm [NT]

PyroApr 19, 2006 4:10:20 pm [NT]

BladeApr 19, 2006 4:15:29 pm [NT]

Eck (Linkin Park isa Rollah Coasta)Apr 19, 2006 4:19:08 pm

let's say hot guy finds out that you used inviter guy for the sole purpose of seeing hot guy...

now... a woman would see this as "well, hot guy will think it was a terrible thing that I used the other guy and threw him aside"

but in actuality... the hot guy will be thinking "this girl wants me... I rock. 10 on the bed, 10 on the floor... then I'll teach her 10 more."

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:20:01 pm [NT]

Eck (Linkin Park isa Rollah Coasta)Apr 19, 2006 4:28:21 pm [NT]

BladeApr 19, 2006 4:29:54 pm [NT]

47 [ Lord of the Dance ]Apr 19, 2006 3:54:45 pm

wtf does that mean lol, did i miss something

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 3:57:42 pm [NT]

47Apr 19, 2006 4:48:51 pm [NT]

Eck (Linkin Park isa Rollah Coasta)Apr 19, 2006 4:00:15 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:00:46 pm [NT]

Eck (Linkin Park isa Rollah Coasta)Apr 19, 2006 4:04:38 pm

seriously... if you have no interest in the inviter in that way, and don't think you EVER will... you have to look them in the eyes and say "we're friends... that's all we'll ever be... I enjoy hanging out with you, but I must warn you now that that's as far as it will ever go. Don't think that later I will 'grow to like you as more than friends' because it simply won't happen. I'm sorry this is abrupt, but trust me, now that this is established, we can move past any awkwardness as friends. So now what can you tell me about Eck that will get him in my pants? I want him to give me a sloppy nacho, but all he ever does is play with my bewbs"

BladeApr 19, 2006 4:18:16 pm [NT]

Eck (Linkin Park isa Rollah Coasta)Apr 19, 2006 4:20:17 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:20:46 pm [NT]

BladeApr 19, 2006 4:23:33 pm [NT]

PyroApr 19, 2006 4:22:24 pm

Without the attraction though, it wont' ever happen.

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:19:21 pm

I am not totally sure he DOES like me. It's just a vibe, yannow? I would hate to lay all that out and then have him be all WTF?!

BladeApr 19, 2006 4:22:37 pm [NT]

PyroApr 19, 2006 4:23:32 pm [NT]

BladeApr 19, 2006 4:24:06 pm [NT]

PyroApr 19, 2006 4:24:43 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:26:10 pm [NT]

BladeApr 19, 2006 4:26:35 pm [NT]

syr - excels in excellenceApr 19, 2006 4:29:35 pm [NT]

PyroApr 19, 2006 4:35:32 pm

Which is unfortunate.

anna.jpgApr 19, 2006 4:29:57 pm [NT]

syr - excels in excellenceApr 19, 2006 4:31:01 pm [NT]

PyroApr 19, 2006 4:34:27 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:24:20 pm [NT]

Eck (Linkin Park isa Rollah Coasta)Apr 19, 2006 4:23:48 pm

all joking aside... if you know deep down that you NEVER plan to give this person a chance... DO NOT LET THEM HARBOR (notsowell) HIDDEN FEELINGS FOR YOU!

the hurt they will feel after this quick ending will be FAR less than what they'll feel later if they keep falling further

a long drawn out discovery of no poontang is much worse than a quick "no entry" declaration

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:25:45 pm

My line is generally "I'm not attracted to you ______." I figure that's about as clear as it can get. heh I just wouldn't want to say it to someone before I knew. Maybe he's just really friendly to everyone?

Eck (Linkin Park isa Rollah Coasta)Apr 19, 2006 4:27:40 pm

tell them you'll go because you want to see that other guy

BladeApr 19, 2006 4:29:06 pm [NT]

BanApr 19, 2006 4:00:58 pm [NT]

BanApr 19, 2006 4:01:38 pm [NT]

Joan [Hay hay El Jay!]Apr 19, 2006 4:02:02 pm [NT]

BanApr 19, 2006 4:32:24 pm [NT]

Earnest - PhilomastixApr 19, 2006 4:18:37 pm [NT]

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